A message I think every parent should read


Hey Reader,

It’s been a little while since I popped into your inbox, and with the LSU Tigers starting their road to the College World Series in Omaha, it reminded me of something Eric and I used to talk about doing when we were just married.

We’d each buy one share of Berkshire Hathaway stock so we could go to Omaha to see Warren Buffett speak at the shareholder meeting.

Not because we had big stock portfolios—just because it felt like one of those “one day” adventures.

Go see Warren.
See where they play the College World Series.
Eat our weight in Nebraska steaks.

Life happened. We never bought the shares.

But I keep coming back to a message Warren Buffett shared as part of a major gift of his Berkshire stock:

I have one further suggestion for all parents, whether they are of modest or staggering wealth. When your children are mature, have them read your will before you sign it.
Be sure each child understands both the logic for your decisions and the responsibilities they will encounter upon your death. If any have questions or suggestions, listen carefully and adopt those found sensible. You don’t want your children asking "Why?" in respect to testamentary decisions when you are no longer able to respond.

The whole thing is a good read. Here it is if you're interested:

📄 Read Berkshire Hathaway News Release (PDF)

When you think about it that way, planning ahead and talking about it with your family really does matter.

On a personal note, it’s been a big spring at our house. Luke made his First Communion and hit his first over-the-fence home run, and Gabe graduated from kindergarten. We’ve been soaking it all in and enjoying all the celebrations. Hope your crew is doing well too. Feel free to hit reply and say hi.

Talk soon,
Addie

Addie Prewitt Law

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